one of THOSE posts...

you know, those really annoying ones where the person is all "I'm mad at this person for something", and then you're all "oooohh, what happened??" and then they're all "I don't want to talk about it", or even better "omg.  so crazy.  I'll message you..."

Um HELLO?!?!?!  You're posting all that shit all over the internets and NOW you're trying to be bashful about what the FUCK you're talking about??

Well, ok, this post won't be that bad... (I hope...)

BUT I do have some questions about how people my age (roughly 25...ish...ok, let's say people in their mid 20s to mid 30s) communicate intensions in this day and age.  I don't know exactly when, in the last few years I have noticed that I've become both more aware of my strong personal feelings about people and circumstances, and that I've become less nervous/uneasy about sharing those feelings with others (especially when it involves them).  I've been told that that's just "growing up", and that everyone goes through that.

As a 25 year old single, straight woman, I have found that there are MANY young men my age who do NOT subscribe to knowing how they feel and sharing that openly.  It's frustrating.  I'm ready to live my life openly in that way - when I know something, and I feel something for real, I'm gonna fucking say it.  And I'm gonna fucking mean it.  Don't waste my time with bullshit, and, more than that, if you don't have something real to say, please, please PLEASE for the love of God, don't say anything at all.

I know that the stereotype of women is that we read things into everything.  Yes.  We do.  Get fucking used to it.  If you say certain things, I will think that you mean something to that end.  And come ON!  This is not just me, this is a lot of people...

I guess just all I wanna say is "what the fuck?"

And also, that I'm sorry for this turning out to be one of those posts...it was.  I admit it.  And now I'm done.  (And I promise I'll never do it again, I swear - haha)

Love, Bethy